So, taking in my own feelings and talking to some other girls, here are some things that girls want guys to know.
1) A girl needs to be reminded that you love her and that you only want to be with her.
2) Girls do get annoyed and sometimes even mad when their guy doesn't call them...so guys call her.
3) A girl would rather be called, "beautiful", than "sexy", "hot", or "fine".
4) Girls need to be able to trust you...don't do anything to lose that trust.
5) Do not lie to a girl.
6) Sometimes girls just have to cry even if there is no reason.
7) When you ask a girl whats wrong and she says, "nothing", this usually means something is wrong. Try to figure out what it is and do your best to comfort her.
8) A girl wants you to stand up to people who say bad things about her and/or who try to ruin the relationship.
9) Girls love the sweet little things like, a kiss on the forehead, neck or hand, or even just a random present, even if it something you made.
10) Do not constantely talk about other girls expecially your exes. What happened in the past stays in the past unless she asks you a question about it and then you can talk about it.
11) Try to spend as much time with her as you can...Girls want to know that you care about them and that you will do anything just to spend time with her.
12) Not talking to a girl or calling a girl because you think she is mad at you is a lame excuse. All it does is make the situation worse if she is mad at you and who knows maybe she isn't even made at you at all.
13) When a girl doesn't call you she just might be waiting for you to call her...she might be doing this just to see if you care about her and if your thinking of her.
14) Girls just don't want you to say you love them and want to be with them...they also want you to act like it.
15) If you've done something really wrong, try your hardest and your best to fix the situation, make it up to her, and do not do it again.
16) Girls are delicate and you never know what they have been through...be nice
17) Don't be mean to her, even if you break up and it was her that broke up with you...maybe she didn't even want to break up with you.
18) When a girl is upset, she just wants you to hold her for a while and not let go...she wants you to comfort her.
19) When a girl says she loves you more, she wants you to argue with her and say you love her more. If someone says they love her more than you, argue with them.
20) Girls would rather have a big, long, meaningful hug or just cuddle than have a makeout session.
21) Do things for her because you want to and because you love her, not because she wants you to.
22) Don't tell a girl you love her, if you really don't.
23) Girls can be really emotional..take that into consideration. Not all girls want to or try to be mean, but sometimes they feel like they have to just to get their message across.
24) Some girls don't tell you everything about them at first because either they don't like opening up or because they have been through a bad relationship before and it might be hard for them to open up or get emotionally close to anyone.
25) Depending on the situation, after a girl breaks up with you she might want you to run after her and fight for her back and show her that you do care and that you really want to be with her.
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Defintion Of Love and Ways To Find It
Love is a part of life. Everyone talks, thinks, dreams and worries about it. Just saying the four letter word can bring up so many emotions, some good and unfortunately, some bad. This is normal. Love involves lots of drama, highs and lows, and causes many different emotions. Many people question, what exactly is love? Or, how can I tell if it truly is love that I am feeling? Honestly, I cannot answer that question. I wish I knew myself. The best thing I can do is give you the dictionary definition of love:
Love- a strong affection or liking for someone or something.
I believe only you can know whether you are in love or not. No one else can decide for you. Only you can truly know in your heart if it is love.
Some people just worry if they will ever find love. Many people dream about finding that one person they can spend the rest of their life with. Although, we would like it to be easy, it is rarely ever the case. Finding love involves dating many people and going through many challenges and obstacles, the biggest one being heartbreak. Just about everyone will go through this. It is nearly impossible to avoid. This causes sadness, anger, confusion, and many other emotions. It may cause you to question yourself. Why did this happen? What have I done wrong? What can I change next time? Will I ever find someone again?
Sometimes, we don’t know why breakups happen, but I do know that no matter the circumstances, do not blame yourself, even if you were the one to break up with someone. People make mistakes. Relationships involve unpredictability and people being choosy. You are not sure what you want. Just learn from your mistakes and move on. Accept the fact that it just possibly wasn’t meant to be. And yes, most likely you will find someone new. There are many other people out there. You have to meet lots of people and take chances to find love. I may not know the true meaning of love, but I do know that it is possible to love more than one person. One of my favorite quotes I would like to share with you is:
“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go, things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they are right, you believes lies so eventually you learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”
I believe it was Marilyn Monroe who was the author of that quote.
If you haven’t dated many people, don’t worry about it. Just be glad you haven’t had to deal with all the drama dating involves. Don’t worry about not finding love, most likely you will find it. It might take a long time. Just be patient. You’ll be glad you waited. Meet lots of people and get out there and do what you love to do. Have fun and just live your life. The rest will follow.
Love- a strong affection or liking for someone or something.
I believe only you can know whether you are in love or not. No one else can decide for you. Only you can truly know in your heart if it is love.
Some people just worry if they will ever find love. Many people dream about finding that one person they can spend the rest of their life with. Although, we would like it to be easy, it is rarely ever the case. Finding love involves dating many people and going through many challenges and obstacles, the biggest one being heartbreak. Just about everyone will go through this. It is nearly impossible to avoid. This causes sadness, anger, confusion, and many other emotions. It may cause you to question yourself. Why did this happen? What have I done wrong? What can I change next time? Will I ever find someone again?
Sometimes, we don’t know why breakups happen, but I do know that no matter the circumstances, do not blame yourself, even if you were the one to break up with someone. People make mistakes. Relationships involve unpredictability and people being choosy. You are not sure what you want. Just learn from your mistakes and move on. Accept the fact that it just possibly wasn’t meant to be. And yes, most likely you will find someone new. There are many other people out there. You have to meet lots of people and take chances to find love. I may not know the true meaning of love, but I do know that it is possible to love more than one person. One of my favorite quotes I would like to share with you is:
“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go, things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they are right, you believes lies so eventually you learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.”
I believe it was Marilyn Monroe who was the author of that quote.
If you haven’t dated many people, don’t worry about it. Just be glad you haven’t had to deal with all the drama dating involves. Don’t worry about not finding love, most likely you will find it. It might take a long time. Just be patient. You’ll be glad you waited. Meet lots of people and get out there and do what you love to do. Have fun and just live your life. The rest will follow.
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